2003-07-15 - 9:57 p.m. - this is my life and it gets more pathetic one minute at a time...
OMFG! I can't believe what I just fucking saw! Don't get me wrong, I love my cousin to death but right now I both praise and loathe him. He came up to me with his laptop in hand and said "I have to show you something..."
He just showed me an amateur "porn video" of him doing the nasty with this chick I totally had the hots for. She was fucking beautiful, jet black hair, beautiful eyes, nice body and this fucking sexy Eastern European accent. If I were to compare her to an actress I'd say she reminds me of Mila Jojovich.
The sick bastard had a low light digital cam set up in his bedroom and has it all down in his laptop. I was watching this video clip and I'm like saying "Holy Fuck!" to myself. OK, so I'm totally fucking jealous, I fucking admit it!
I remember the look in her eyes she wanted someone to do this to her and I did not heed the signs. Perhaps it was because she came back from a trip to Bosnia engaged to be married. I guess I didn't want the karma of macking someone's fianc�, but damn she was just so fucking beautiful, I just can't help but wonder "what if?". Then I see the this fucking video, it's enough to throw me for a serious fucking loop.
Then I see the fucking "hitch" where things went wrong. Flashing back, two birthdays ago at what was supposed to be mine and Ray's birthday/costume party, only Ray died the June before. The chick who I was totally in love with and later broke my heart and got married with someone else was in attendance. She was there for my birthday, we hadn't seen each other in a while, so I was obviously preoccupied, but the eastern European chick was totally buzzed and flirting with me every time I passed her in the party, I mean it could have so totally been on if I wasn't entertaining the chick that later broke my heart.
Now here is the "rub" and I totally love this one, the "heartbreaker" chick didn't make love with me that night. I mean we kissed and made out. I still remember that time vividly because it was the last time I kissed someone with complete passion. (yes, this was over 2 yeas ago, how pathetcic am I?) I remember how soft her lips were, I remember how good it felt with her body against mine and I remember her totally leaving me with blue-balls. Just the thought about it now gives me the same emotional sting of that moment. To be in love with someone so intensely and to be rejected by that same person.
It just makes me wonder, if I went back to that crossroad and acted differently. If I forked left instead of right. I wonder how differently things would have turned out. Then I remembered several months after that B-day party, it was the B-day of a mutual friend. The hot eastern European chick looked depressed. She was going to head to Germany for good to be with her fianc� and I assume to get married. I never got into a discussion with my cousin, but if I'm reading the signs right I'd say they had a "falling out". I think she really wanted to stay but my cousin was probably being his usual noncommittal asshole of a self and it looked like she was suffering from a broken heart.
I spent that whole party next to her and she was totally vibing me, I mean she was sitting on my lap, letting me cuddle her. This was the closest we had ever gotten with each other and I remember it feeling so fucking good. It was that moment I knew that if things were somehow different we could have totally hit it off. I'm not just talking about hot sex, not that I'm opposed to the idea, but I'm talking about the possibility of a true connection. At the end of the night I walked her to her car and tried to kiss her but she turned and gave me her cheek. I guess it really wasn't meant to be, but still it was enough to just make me wonder to this very day, "what if?".
Sometimes I wish life was just a little more straightforward. There are just so many "gray areas" so much room for doubt and regret. It is as if life is offering you a brief glimmer of joy, just enough for you know, to feel, to taste what it is like, only to take it away from you once you try to embrace it and make it your own. You hope for something better and get absolutely nothing and I keep wondering what is it that I have done, what it is that I am doing for me to deserve all this pain, all this loneliness. The only answer I could come up with are that there are no answers. This is my fucking life.