2004-05-19 - 5:37 p.m. - i am derrick's frustration...
I think I just got in way over my head. My level of frustration is mounting
severely and I'm not sure what to do at this point. My sleep disorders are still
present, I am continuing to stay up late at night doing basically nothing while
waking up late in the morning and I still feel like doing nothing. I think I
need to change my routine. I feel totally enslaved to my situation. I'm not sure
where all this is coming from but I feel the need to empty my mind so I am going
to pour my soul out yet again to this diary.
One major point of frustration is my Advanced Server Side Programming class.
The teacher is disorganized, he sets no solid deadlines, he's late in grading
the assignments and his teaching style is very generalized. He give a few vague
examples and he expects the students to innovate in the assignments.
Of course the main problem is not the teacher but how I have let myself slip so far
behind. It started with me trying to build something so complex that it's
impossible for me to wrap my head around it enough to get it to work, so I let
it sit in the backburner hoping inspiration will pop up, but I don't think
that's ever going to happen at least this quarter.
I think I just need to sit down and do it. I'll set the alarm early tomorrow
morning haul my ass to the library and just gung-ho it. It's the only way. I'll
probably have to do the exact same thing Friday and Saturday. The master plan is
to get everything caught up by this weekend. It's the only way I can survive
this quarter. I need to pass that class with at least a C or even better a B and
right now I'm pulling an F performance. I need to turn that shit around now
especially since I'll be starting my internship this Monday.
Another major downer is my mom. She was the first person I called when I
landed the internship and the only thing she was concerned with was what the
liability was in terms of cost of tuition. Never mind that I need this
internship for work experience and as a requirement to graduate. She was ready
to berate me if this was going to cost her any extra money. Seriously, sometimes
I just don't understand her. I mean where is the love?
Back when I was working and she wasn't I gave her my entire paycheck. From
there she made sure my bills were paid and she took $500 per month for her own
expenses. She could have taken it all, that is how much I didn't care about
money because I was helping my family. Ugh, ok I don't want this to be about
money. For some reason that shit always leaves a bad taste in my mouth.
So anyway I am planning to split the last 4 courses to 2 in the Summer
Quarter and 2 in the Fall Quarter which will be more or less equivalent in cost
to one full-time quarter. For some reason my University considers 3 courses
full-time and charges accordingly. Economically speaking, you are better off
taking 4 classes instead of 3 because you are paying the same price. But anyway
enough with the fucking boring details.
Why couldn't she just be happy for me and worry about the cost some other
time? Trying to get even get an interview was a fucking pain in the ass, let
alone landing a position. Competition is fierce, most every student is looking
for a summer internship and I got one right in my field. This is why I don't
want to depend on anyone financially or otherwise. There is way too much
potential for disappointment. *sigh*
OK, I'm not going to worry about her right now. I'm in the right place at the
right time in my life and I'm not going to allow anything to derail my momentum
towards graduation. I don't need praise, I don't need appreciation, I don't need
a pat on the back. I just need to get all of this over and done with so I can
move onto the next few steps of my life.
This is all Derrick needs...
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