2005-01-29 - 1:32 a.m. - death wish declined due to insufficient funds...
It's funny how things work out. For the past few days I've been a little
zoned out. It's that kind of feeling where you feel out of touch with the world
around you. I've been feeling distant, lonely, lacking a sense of belonging and
I've been having a very difficult time finding a reason to continue living aside
from the fact that I am just simply living and breathing.
It's weird but I just don't see a point to life anymore other than just
living for the sake of living. I just can't envision anything on this Earth that
can provide me with any lasting degree of happiness. Other than the most basic
sustenance, I'm almost absolutely certain that the gain of monetary or material
possessions is not the key to bringing me joy. Things like having my own place,
driving a nice car, not having the need to constantly hold back on my material
impulses due to lack of finances, those things at best would provide only a
temporary degree of happiness because there is always a bigger house, faster and
nicer cars and things that I may want but will never be able to afford because a
person can only make a finite amount of money.
Really I'm not sure where my heart will find it's joy. Part of me wants to
travel the world and see what wonders are out there, the Great Wall of China,
the Great Barrier Reef, The Great Pyramids of Giza. I want to gaze out into a
vast ocean or stare out into the Grand Canyon and be able to breathe in and just
feel alive. I want some sort of affirmation that the universe is a grand place
and not just some festering hole where all life eventually withers, dies and
rots but it's difficult to escape the feeling that it is all indeed nothing more
than that and if so what the hell is the point?
I mistakenly thought that sexual gratification would be the key to my
salvation, but like everything else it will at best only provide a momentary
glimpse of Nirvana. I'm of course only talking about satisfaction of my physical
wants and needs if those can't even be met why should I even mention the deeper
cravings of the heart and soul. It's all just so fucking pointless. I keep
looking and hoping for that moment where life will show me something of beauty,
a reason to hold on to life to finally let the beauty that is inside your heart
flow onto another person. But I keep waiting and hoping and continuing life only
to experience pain and loss, I get to watch the hope inside turn to despair and
regret.
All I really want to do now is simply not exist. I don't want to live life
just to watch the best parts of myself wither into something wretched. I don't
want to see the day where I don't want or care about anything anymore but it
seems that day is coming closer and closer. I'd rather die than turn into a
hateful, resentful soul that is no longer capable of love, no longer capable of
joy and no longer capable of experiencing the very things in life that make it
worth living. I don't know, maybe it's just me making things out to be much more
complex and convoluted than they actually are. I suppose it's a waste of time
dreaming of things have not and never will come into my life. Somebody please
tell me that life doesn't always suck this hard...
I guess there really isn't much use for ranting, other than getting these
stupid thoughts out of my system. I don't know if it's just me, but sometimes I
think the universe operates like this huge, inefficient government bureaucracy.
You ask for something important like the end to your life, but instead of being
granted the wish of death, you get put on this huge waiting list, but before you
can get your name on the list you have to take a number and wait in line until
it is your turn to get served. Life shouldn't be all about wanting and waiting,
but somehow that's all it has become for me and I'm like WTF man! But whatever,
shit happens and all that.
So anyway, the HR department for my former employer finally contacted me
yesterday to fill out an electronic application, which I filled and returned the
same day and I was given an offer later this afternoon by HR, by exactly the
same guy who handed me my walking papers 10 months ago when I got laid off no
less.
I suppose things can be worse, I could have this guy's job and be the herald
of significant life change, the bringer of news that can make or break people's
lives. I suppose eventually in as time goes by, a job becomes just just a job...
Anyway, the offer itself was nothing spectacular, just my old salary with
full-time hours and benefits. I was hoping the completion of my degree could
leverage a better salary but as it stands now it seems much more a factor in
getting my foot back in the door.
Well I can't say the offer completely sucks considering I'll be making more
than twice than I am making now. The restoration of my original salary does not
come without it's price however. I'll be suffering the expense of re-joining the
responsible 8 to 5 working class of people. I can hear my alarm clock and it's
sickening, must wake up by 6 am buzz now. Thank the devil for snooze bars. It
gives me that really "special" feeling on the inside knowing I'll be a slave to
the alarm clock once again.
On the plus side, I'll be serving my 2-week notice to my current employer who
is not only underpaying me, but still managed to bounce my last payroll check
and bitched at me for "working too slow" on top of that. So to the "big" boss
man with the huge Napoleon complex, it's been nice doing business with you man
but I'm going to have to leave you for some real money. Not that it hasn't been
a little slice of heaven working for you man. No hard feelings eh? Try not to
let things go under when I'm gone because you know I got skillz that killz.
All in all, I guess my life has turned out to be just a little more
interesting, nothing breathtakingly spectacular mind you, but just interesting
enough that I may have to stick around for a bit longer among the living, just
to see what happens next. Anyway, until next time...